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Act on the thing causing stress

Make the first call or send the first email on whatever is nagging at you

Stress, on this view, mostly comes from not acting on something you could act on. So when the feeling shows up, it gets treated as a flag that some problem has been noticed but not yet addressed. The response is to name it and take the smallest first step, a phone call or an email, even though that step will not solve anything by itself. People who use this report that the stress drops as soon as the thing is in motion, and that hard work by itself was never the cause.

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Does it: documented as part of their own routine. Recommends: explicitly advises other people to do it. Discusses: covered it substantively without clear personal adoption; this can include criticism or disagreement.

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