Act on the thing causing stress
Make the first call or send the first email on whatever is nagging at you
Stress, on this view, mostly comes from not acting on something you could act on. So when the feeling shows up, it gets treated as a flag that some problem has been noticed but not yet addressed. The response is to name it and take the smallest first step, a phone call or an email, even though that step will not solve anything by itself. People who use this report that the stress drops as soon as the thing is in motion, and that hard work by itself was never the cause.
Who backs it
Sorted by strength of stance
- Jeff BezosDoes it
Amazon and Blue Origin founder · Six-page memos and eight hours of sleep
Treats stress as a warning flag that something has been noticed but not acted on. As soon as he identifies it and makes the first phone call or sends the first email, he says the stress drops sharply, even before the problem is solved.
Source: Academy of Achievement: Jeff Bezos interview, 2001 (transcript)“Stress primarily comes from not taking action over something that you can have some control over. … you can be working incredibly hard and loving it”
Academy of Achievement: Jeff Bezos interview, 2001 (transcript) (opens in a new tab) · 4 May 2001
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