Positive framing
State the outcome you want instead of the one you are trying to avoid
Swap the instruction from don't to do. Don't forget your lines becomes remember your lines, and don't eat on the couch becomes eat at the table. Sinek's reasoning is that a negative instruction leaves your attention parked on the thing you are trying to avoid, which is why skiers are taught to look at the gap rather than the trees. On a team it works the same way as it does on your own self-talk. The whole cost is a second of rephrasing.
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Tell yourself to remember your lines rather than not to forget them. A negative instruction keeps your attention on the thing you want to avoid, he says. His illustration is skiers looking for the path between the trees instead of at the trees.
Source: The Optimism Company: Simon's Mental Trick to Beat Self-Sabotage
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